Marriage Adjustments

Aside from the biggest change of getting married we could also say that there are smaller details of adjustment when you first get married. Have you ever thought about sleeping adjustments or cleaning habits? For a good majority of people we later learn about these patterns once we are actually with our spouse. My husband and I found sleeping adjustments to be the hardest to figure out. I like the bedroom to be fairly warm while my husband would rather have the room ice cold and be covered by layers of blankets. So far we have just tried to make the temperature a happy medium for both of us and my husband sleeps with less covers now. Typically a lot of adjustments happen within in the first month and well into the first year of marriage. This is why it is usually a good idea to discuss different habits or rituals that the other person goes through prior to getting married. Sit down together and go through different habits such as spending, getting ready in the morning, punctuality, and eating habits etc.